Seems a new social network didn’t take too kindly to Buffysblog and the subject matter which I write about. I signed up several days ago and was wondering why it was taking so long for them to confirm the ownership of my blog…now I understand why. They obviously wanted to read all the ‘adult’ themed topics I write about and check out all those porn photos…yeah right!

Ok…I DO work for SexyAds.com and it IS an adult site…not a porn site! And I quite often make mention of SexyAds when I write…but ‘pharque’! (If I’m starting to sound ‘pissed’ you’re right on the money!)

Show me anywhere on my site that I have ‘R’ or XXX rated pics…I don’t!

I do write about ALL sorts of things…from smelly socks and morning breath to my beautiful sons- both of which frequent my blog, as do hundreds of other readers who I’m sure wouldn’t if it was offensive in any way.

The ’social’ network in question have told me to resubmit my blog when those ‘things’ have been removed. Great! Thanks for that…yeah right!!! Not likely!

I’m sure the frustration we feel as site owners is very close to your own when it comes to scammers. You know the ones I mean - the ones who are here to promote their websites, phone sex business, massage business, get rich quick business or prostitution business. Oh, and don’t forget the people from around the world who want you to love them and send them all your money. They know what our rules are so they make sure they “fit” whatever they do so we don’t kick them out. We catch nearly 50 a day!

They usually don’t do anything on the SexyAds site that gives any indication of what their real purpose is. We have consistently deleted every one of them when we receive information and I want to take this opportunity to thank those of you who have taken the time to tell us when someone isn’t here for a relationship, online fun or just a casual visit.

If someone won’t talk to you at SexyAds, and insist that you write to them on their yahoo or other free email service, it’s a warning. Not everyone who does that is a scammer but most all scammers will make that request.

If you are here to promote your business, please go away. We have to pay big dollars to advertise our site and you can do the same thing! Our members don’t want you here and neither to we.

We want to keep SexyAds for sexy adults who wish to meet - either online or in person - for fun, adult or otherwise. We don’t scan private email for anything, so your help in keeping out the ones who are here for any other reason is greatly appreciated.