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Orgasms are a
dime a dozen. Especially if they are achieved the same way, over and
over again. This might be from having the same partner for a long time,
or it might be just how you give it to yourself.

None
of that is bad; it certainly hasn’t stopped me from giving certain areas
of my body extra attention in the shower. But what brings sex, and
orgasm, to the highest level… the best you will ever have, is to also
have that emotional connection along with the physical connection.

Often, this is simply achieved by the newness of a relationship. The
first time is always that much more exciting. Sometimes you might be
trying out new things… again, something for the first time that brings
the relationship to another level.

Maybe
it is simply just extra romantic… like you are finally not just having
sex in bed before rolling over to go to sleep, rather, you are away from
kids/family/work (whatever the norm is) and you are out on the beach at
night, on a vacation, after having some ice cream and taking a long
walk. Then you sit down in the sand and chat for hours before the
conversation turns hot and you start ripping each others clothes off.

My point is that the emotional connection in addition to the physical
raises the quality of sex for men just as much as it does for women. If
you want that, you will have to seek it out.